Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Mother's Day 2011

Hope everyone had a great mother's day.  Even for those who have not given birth to a child ~ you are a mother, mentor, or friend to someone.  Sometimes I wish  someone would step up and be my mother.  Mine has been gone 18 years!  I enjoyed a Sunday BBQ with my children and grandchildren.  Flowers, gifts, good food and fun!

Mother's Day is always a nice time to celebrate mother's but it also adds a bit of stress and resentment to one's life. (At Least Mine)  I remember celebrating Mother's Day at my Mother- In - Laws several years ago, working and working on her yard and garden.  I really love my mother in law and all, but I did resent the fact that I was working my but off on Mother's Day!

I tried assure my boys, who are married, that if they wanted to do something for me on another day, I was fine with that.  I wanted them to take care of their wives and or mother in laws.  My former spouse used to say, well I am not your mother!  I don't want my children to ever tell their wives, the mother of their children, that!

I am not sure what they did for their wives or Mother in Laws, but I am sure they took care of them.  I love my kids, and enjoy every minute I can spend with them!